Last week, when I was teaching on Dare to Date again, this question was written down for me. And as I look at the question now, the answer seems so simple. Can I really do that?

Want to know how long to wait before asking her out? Read what the Dating Nerd has to say.

Sooner rather than later, you may have to decide whether the person you’ve been talking to online will be worth meeting in person. While states are beginning to reopen after getting their coronavirus cases under control, even going on a socially distant date can feel a bit risky. Besides, just because you connected with someone online, it doesn’t always mean that you’ll click in person.

And no one really wants to risk their health for a bad date. So, what can you do to determine who you should or shouldn’t go out with post-quarantine? According to experts, asking your date the right questions before you meet up can help you figure out if the person you’re talking to is worth the risk. Quarantine is the perfect excuse to screen someone with a phone or video call before you spend time and energy on a date. Trust your gut, and do what feels right.

Since we’re still amid a pandemic, take caution and have an open and honest conversation with your potential date.